Because the symptoms of many mental health conditions and learning disorders are very similar to one another, you must pay close attention to the issues that your child may be having. Christian counseling for children in Grapevine, Texas can point you in the direction of potential diagnoses, useful information, and practical next steps. Find out more about how to prepare your child (and yourself) for counseling if the need arises.
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Preparing Your Child
What you say to your child to get them ready for their first visit will, of course, be different depending on their age and personality. However, unless your child is very young, we strongly recommend that you make a statement about the event that is very general. As an illustration, one could say, “We’re going to talk to a doctor about how you’re feeling, thinking, and behaving so that we can make your life easier.”
You could also explain that Grapevine Christian counseling in Texas is a place where entire families can go to receive assistance by saying something like, “When one person in our family is going through a tough time, we all need help. This counselor is going to help us get through this.”
It is helpful to explain that a counselor will be asking questions, and it is important to make sure that young children know that “none of our doctors give shots.” This will help alleviate any fears that they may have. It would be helpful if you could explain to your child that the goal of the neuropsychological and educational evaluation is to determine how children learn best. If your child is coming in for one of these evaluations, thank you. You could explain that we accomplish this by having conversations with children and playing games that require them to pay attention, figure out solutions to problems, read, write, and use math.
Guidelines for conversations with children of varying ages.
When parents prepare their children for what to anticipate at their first appointment, they report that their children experience less anxiety. Have a conversation with kids of any age by reading our tips and tricks.
Ages 2-4
It is typical for children this age to have a difficult time comprehending the purpose of their appointment with a psychiatrist or psychologist. Parents should make it their top priority to make their children of this age feel at ease throughout the entire experience. During the assessment, it is often comforting for these children to be able to hold a familiar object such as a toy, blanket, or stuffed animal.
Ages 5-6
Typically, children this age are anxious about being away from their parents for an extended period. They also demand a more convincing justification for going to see a professional in the field of mental health. Parents can help ease their children’s anxiety by providing reassurance, such as saying, “The Christian counseling in Grapevine, Texas is a safe place,” and explaining that a visit to the Christian counselor is similar to going for a check-up at the pediatrician’s office, but nobody will give the child any shots. This will help the child feel more comfortable about the experience.
Ages 7-11
Children of this age may experience anxiety whenever they have to go to the doctor. Parents can help ease their children’s anxiety about an upcoming visit by having a conversation with them about the trip one week in advance and providing them with information about what to anticipate. Young children value the opportunity to inquire and make preparations regarding what they will bring, which may include a book, a game, or a doll. Parents should encourage questions.
Ages 12-17
Pre-teens and teenagers must have some input regarding the scheduling of appointments with mental health professionals. The children’s parents should prepare them for what to anticipate and encourage them to question the counselors treating them. It is essential to bear in mind that adolescents wish to have the confidentiality of their personal information respected. Parents need to convey to their children that having confidential conversations with a counselor is not only acceptable but also very beneficial.
You’re not alone.
It can be difficult to figure out how to get your child the help they need for their mental health or learning disorder. Families frequently have a difficult time determining whether or not the assistance of a professional is required in the first place. And even if it is, you might have some further inquiries: Who exactly is it that you need to consult in terms of your mental health needs? How can you determine which treatment is best for your child? How does one go about getting assistance, and what does that entail?
At Grapevine Christian Counseling, we’re here to answer any questions you may have in a welcoming, judgment-free environment. We invite you to contact our office today to schedule your child’s first appointment. We look forward to meeting you!
Get connected with a Christian Counselor
Please contact our reception team at
(469) 333-6163